I keep getting onto this blog with the intention of writing about why everyone should want to be best friends with Nathan Fillion. Then I remember something that happened in my real life and decide that I need to write about that instead.
So a good friend of mine is sick and has to have chemical treatments. Treatments that take a long time. Yesterday I took her to her treatment and looked away while the nurse stuck her with a bunch of needles and attached tubes to her arm, just because I don’t like the pain even if it belongs to someone else. Then we hung out for the next six hours (we were not prepared for it to take so long. Next time we’ll bring a computer and watch Firefly).
A couple of hours into hanging out in the treatment an older woman walked over to my friend and told my friend “you are far too pretty to be in a place like this.” Which, of course, we took very well, politely thanking her and talking to her for a minute. After the woman left I turned to my friend and said, “I didn’t know that beautiful people were immune to disease. If I had I would have actually put forth an effort.”
I know the woman was just being nice. It was a very nice thing to say. She was worried about the fact that two young women were sitting in a treatment center and one of them had a big bag of chemicals dribbling into her arm. It was just that the implication was that beautiful people don’t get sick and if that was really a way to keep from coming down with things like cancer and leukemia I would put forth a lot more of an effort. I would also wonder what they were putting in cosmetics and why we had not harnessed that magical cure yet. Seriously.
Or did she mean that beautiful people somehow are genetically immune to such things? I don’t know.
It was a very kind statement but also kind of ridiculous. First of all I really do think that everyone has there own beauty whether or not they fit into society’s little box. So to say that someone is “too beautiful” to be in a place like that seems absurd to me. Everyone is beautiful and also beautiful people get sick. It is a tragic fact of life. I’ll bet Tom Hiddleston and Natalie Portman (who are some of the most beautiful people I have ever seen) still suffer from the occasional cold and flu (that is not on the same level but still).
I didn’t really have a point to all of this I just kind of wanted to share.